July officially started our summer vacation. With Will's new job we are left with a third of the amount of time to enjoy our bucket list of summer fun. An entire month of vacation is still nothing to shake a stick at, giving us plenty of time still for beach days, long walks and bike rides, time spent with friends, activities with the kids, projects around the house and lots of good food and gardening. Here is Lucy below, kicking off our stay-cation in the comfort of our own backyard.
Turns out, maybe we shouldn't have kicked off our vacation so hard. Two days into our "trip", my toe got severely infected and I ended up having an emergency surgery. It was so unplanned the girls and Will were with me at the doctor's office. Will was a bit stressed out, trying to hold three disturbed girls but we went out for ice cream after, as I couldn't feel my foot yet and well, ice cream is my comfort food. Silver lining of this bummer of a way to kick off summer is the doctor was able to save my toenail. Unfortunately, this knocked beach days, long walks and bike rides completely out of our summer bucket list o' fun. Here is my family below, taking good care of me. Of special note is the inset picture of Will vacuuming. I took a picture so that I could treasure the vision for always. Will does many, many things but vacuuming is usually not one of them!
We finally made it to the cemetery to plant flowers at Luke's grave as well as Will's Grandpa Timmerman and my Grandma and Grandpa Hines' graves. We were torn between feelings of guilt for getting there a month later than usual while trying to remind ourselves that we should not feel guilty for living our lives. We know Luke doesn't care, but it hurts to realize that life continues to move on to the point that we are too busy for such a small gesture, especially when there aren't many gestures we can do these days for our firstborn. It is what it is though, and we planted our annual flowers and enjoyed a picnic lunch.
We enjoyed a laid back fourth of July at my friend Bonnie's house. The girls swam with their friends Emily and Kayla and enjoyed their first, firsthand experience with fireworks. Notice Lucy wearing sunglasses as her own safety precaution. I think it did help them with their fear of fireworks and a great time was had by all.
Will and I celebrated our ninth wedding anniversary on July 10th. Here we are below on our wedding day. It's hard to believe it's almost been a decade and as cliche as it sounds, time sure does fly when you are having fun. I feel so fortunate to have found and married my best friend and soul mate. We have been through so much in these nine years of marriage from joys to heartbreaks and everything in between. My dreams would be nothing without Will in them, and he is an integral part of my hopes and dreams for the future. Who knew nine years ago that we would have three beautiful children, eleven chickens, several thousand bees and a couple of green thumbs? I certainly didn't, but I am happy to say that this is better than I could have ever dreamed. I also wish that I knew then what I know now - I would have registered for drastically different things... pickling crocks, a dehydrator, yogurt maker, worm bin... you get the idea.
That's not to say that we don't have our issues. It's amazing how after nine years we can still find new ways to irritate each other while holding strong to the things that have always driven the other person nuts. Will has recently proclaimed that I put too many things on edge. As in objects, not people! He took a picture the other day to illustrate what he has been trying to tell me for months. Below is a plate I set on the counter, apparently much like I set many things on horizontal surfaces. I swear I do not do this consciously or even purposely to irritate him. I also will admit I have no idea WHY I do it either, but until the photographed proof, I had been aggressively denying any such claims of living too close to the edge. His least favorite is when he finds his school iPad balancing precariously from the top edge of the piano.
Despite my bum foot, I have been quite the socialite this past month while my dear husband stayed home to tend the children and the chickens. A longtime friend of mine is back in the country after a year-long stint in Japan, so we celebrated her homecoming and a belated birthday with a fancy tea at a five star hotel by my house. I've never experienced anything quite like it and it was definitely something I would like to do again! Imagine me trying to explain this to a client that evening as I kept burping champagne. No, really, I don't normally drink champagne at two in the afternoon.
I went to the Michigan Lavender Festival with my sister-in-law kid-free, as the girls were sick. I took advantage of my free-as-a-bird status, and I enjoyed dropping in on several different classes about making your own body care products as well as how to grow and harvest lavender. That same weekend I also got to go with my sister on an all day excursion to Lansing to visit our aunt. It was the longest time I have been away from the girls since my bout with MRSA last winter. It was super refreshing, and when I came home from Lansing, this is what I found at the table:
Two giant mason jars for my fermenting projects! I have been looking for these for quite some time. It was a nice surprise and it definitely made me happy to be home to a family who knows me so well (I fully realize that fermenting jars are not your run of the mill homecoming presents). Thankfully I had arrived home with completely recharged batteries, as the girls were then sick for the next two weeks, passing fevers and coughs back and forth to each other like a ping-pong ball. We missed lots of social gatherings and activities and at one point Lucy overheard me say, "Great, there goes our weekend" after I took her temperature and it read 102 - again. Lucy looked up at me with the saddest eyes and said, "I'm sorry mom, you can just leave me home alone so I don't ruin your weekend anymore." I swear it felt like a knife went straight through my heart at that point and I instantly dropped to my knees and became the most devoted mother you ever did see. Fortunately, we found ways to occupy ourselves while we were on quarantine.
Lucy caught a lot of bugs - literally and figuratively! She got a Little Tikes bug box and net for her birthday and it has been the most used toy of the year. She has a routine this month where she gets up with Will in the morning to let the chickens out and then they pick berries and catch bugs together before breakfast. Every evening before bed we let the bugs go free. I couldn't believe the dragonfly that our neighbor caught for Lucy the other day. It was beautiful and let Lucy hold it for quite some time before it flew away. Hopefully Lucy did not give it her fever. The picture on the right is of Lucy holding a small black toad and the center picture is of Lucy with her most frequent catch - a cricket.
The berries were amazing this month. The strawberries were finished the first week in July just in time for the raspberries, blackberries and blueberries to come out in full force. Lucy is an efficient berry-eater, and Emma is an efficient berry-waster. Emma doesn't care for berries, but loves picking them and feeding "bad" ones to the chickens as well as accidentally knocking over the berry bowl. So as long as I didn't mind the bowl being knocked over multiple times, and I kept Emma from feeding the berries to the chickens, Emma still resulted in larger yields than Lucy would bring home. Which is why you always assign the berry picking to the one who doesn't like berries.
We had enough berries for breakfast every morning, multiple berry desserts as well as yummy blackberry syrup (a.k.a. ice cream topping) and blackberry jam. Will actually made our year's worth of blackberry jam himself since I was laid up with my foot and berries do not keep too long. I am trying to focus on gratitude, however I am kicking myself (with my good foot) for not making sure Will deseeded the berries before making the jam. I really, really am trying not to complain because if Will didn't make the jam, there wouldn't have been jam this year, but now there will be seeds in my jam for a whole year! It's a rough life I lead.
Relaxing doesn't come easy to Will and I and so maybe the bum foot and the coughing, contagious kids is what we needed. Here are the girls below, showing examples of the many forts they built this past month.
We also did artwork outside in attempt to keep my floors clean. I was feeling quite satisfied with my parenting at this point, and we all know the fall from grace is fast and hard. When I set the camera down, the paint really hit the canvas. In retrospect, I should have given them both the SAME colors. When one realized the other had different colors than SHE did, paint started flinging and by the time it was over the neighbors had heard a decibel of my voice that I wasn't even aware I had. Also, there is no doubt that the neighbors also know both girls middle names now too.
Our garden is definitely enjoying the wet summer we are having. Below is the asparagus bed Will planted for me, as well as one of the chickens who so generously donated the rich fertilizer to start our new garden bed off on the right foot.
We love our chickens for many reasons and wonderful, organic fertilizer is a definite plus. Anything we plant in aged chicken poop does remarkably well. Unfortunately, we forgot to amend the soil in our existing garden beds and I think it may be to blame for the poor performance of our lettuce, tomatoes and cucumbers. Either that or those plants just don't like the wet and cool summer we are having. Our pole beans, cabbage, basil, parsley, dill, garlic, potatoes, beets and carrots are doing very well as is our rhubarb. Our rhubarb has been so successful in fact, that we have planted another bed of that this past month. One of our goals is to have as many perennial crops as possible that are native to the area and require little to no work once planted. Rhubarb, asparagus, raspberries, blackberries, strawberries, pears and peaches all seem to enjoy the micro climate that is our yard and should come back year after year with little to no effort on our part.
Lucy planted the sunflower in the above left hand picture from a seed in the spring. The top right is of a peach on our peach tree, bottom left a pear and bottom right an apple. The peach and pear trees are looking very healthy and should have quite a bit of produce to harvest. Our apple trees that we are trellising along the west wall of our garage seem like they are struggling. They each contain only a handful of apples and seem to be fighting off diseases and insects. Time will tell if these trees will make it as a permanent crop in our yard, but in the meantime I feel like I owe it to them to read up on the plights of apple trees.
Lucy and Emma had more bonding time this month, as they shared each other's germs. I would like to say that although both of them know exactly when, where and how to push each other's buttons they did play rather nice this month. It might have helped that usually one was down and out with a fever.
Thank goodness there are 31 days in July. We managed to have fun the last week of this month with both kids finally healthy and my toe healed enough for me to wear shoes again. The girls have gone to a special summer Story Time at our library called Outdoor Explorers most Mondays this summer and have really enjoyed being outside and learning about nature. The girls loved the fact that Will got to come with us, as usually Story Time is on school days only.
The girls also are taking a kids yoga class in a friend's backyard this summer. It has been a great experience, and even better that both girls can take the same class. I wasn't sure how Emma would do as she is the youngest in the class, but she takes it very seriously and is proud to be with the big kids. Some of you may have seen the picture I posted of Emma on Facebook the other day in the top left picture. I came across Emma sitting in the corner with her eyes shut and when I asked her if she was okay, she replied, "Yup. I doing yoga!"
Finally, we went to the zoo this past week and were able to fulfill our bucket list there before the sky dumped buckets of water on us. We were able to ride the train, see the polar bear exhibit (but no polar bears were sighted, just seals and otters), flamingos, lions and monkeys as well as find a tent to eat our picnic under while guarding our food from the peacocks.
We have had many a car ride home this past month that ended like the below picture. So, despite our setbacks, we were still able to live it up enough to exhaust our kids and keep Will and I from going too crazy!
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