Emma is such a sweetie at 16 months. Well, except for the times when she is hungry, tired, just woke up, or in the thick of sibling rivalry. But back to her being a sweetie. She had a busy month as usual, and her vocabulary continues to grow. She said her first full sentence this past week too - after watching a dog go to the bathroom on our lawn she pointed while shouting "Doggie go poo poo!" Which was funny, because the owner obviously heard her and was super embarrassed - so much so that the owner asked us if we had a bag so that she could dispose of it. It was hard not to laugh when Emma kept yelling, "Doggie go poo poo!" I think Emma had just made the connection that dogs poop too. So, thank you neighborhood doggie, for teaching my kid that everyone poops and thank you Emma, for teaching my neighbor to carry a bag to dispose of her dog's poop while walking on other people's front lawns!
Emma got to see her cousin Ellen again this month as my sister-in-law and niece came back to town from Minnesota for an encore tour while my brother Mike was on a business trip. Emma now calls her cousin by name, "Ewen". Here they are below playing Hot Cross Buns on the piano. And, because I couldn't decide which picture was the cutest, you get three variations.
Emma's other word highlights include "nap nap" which she now says when she is tired and ready for a nap, or "nigh-nigh" when she is ready for bed. And again, I couldn't decide on my favorite pictorial representation of her sleepy time vocal, so here are three more pictures depicting the same thing.
As you can see in the above and below pictures, she loves to cuddle her stuffed animals and doll when she goes to sleep. I remember Lucy was in that stage and I just had to laugh when I was rocking Lucy with Hopps, Polly, Huggums, etc. on my lap with little room for Lucy. Now it is Ducky, Teddy, and Emma's Huggums plus her blankie with little room for Emma on my lap! And believe me when I tell you that she knows when one of them is missing.
Sometimes Emma wakes up prematurely from her nap and then she is super cranky and clingy. In the below picture I took her downstairs so she wouldn't wake up Lucy who happened to be taking a rare nap and Emma fell back asleep on me. I managed to get my iPhone out of my pocket and take a picture and then proceeded to get my Pinterest fix while reveling in my snuggly baby. Just look at those cheeks - now I know where she gets them from!
Even when Emma gets a long enough nap, she still prefers to snuggle and be held for at least a half hour after she wakes up. This sometimes makes dinner prep a bit difficult, so we came up with the below solution, which usually helps her get over being clingy faster too. She then yells "down!" and off she goes.
Emma seems to prefer the letter "D", and cat sounds like "Dat!" and bye sounds like "Die!" Her byes are funny when we are leaving someplace and she is yelling "DIE!!! DIE!!!" repeatedly. She makes us laugh all the time though with the cute things she is saying or doing. She loves putting her bare feet in our face while saying "Stinky!" Here she is below making faces on the glass of the back door.
Emma has been eating a ton lately it seems. She isn't picky and has even been tolerating more dairy products too, which makes life easier for us. While on vacation this past month she consumed an entire hamburger. It took her about an hour to eat it, but she just kept plugging along until it was gone! Here she is below, eating the hamburger like a big girl.
Emma loves hanging with the big kids and wants to do whatever we are doing. She even helped move her Aunt Jane into her new apartment this past month. Here she is below making sure Auntie's air conditioning was working properly.
Emma is finally big enough to hold her end of the deal on the alligator see-saw we have. I bought the see-saw at a garage sale when Lucy was Emma's age for $3 - it is on my top 10 list of best garage sale deals ever. But when I brought it home Emma was but a dream on the horizon and Lucy had no one to play on it with. This made me so sad missing Luke and feeling sad for Lucy too - who should have had an older brother to play with. It is always interesting what makes me miss Luke, and it still seems to catch me off guard. When we found out we were pregnant with Emma, I couldn't wait until Lucy had a sibling to play with. Almost two years later, and Lucy finally does. That makes me smile, while fighting back the tears because look - there is still an empty seat in the middle where Luke should be.No matter how many children I have on earth, no one will replace Luke and that is hard to deal with sometimes. There will always be an empty place until we are all reunited again in heaven. Emma is just starting to listen when we talk about Luke. That Teddy and Ducky that she cuddles with were given to us at Luke's baby shower. It is a good reminder every time Emma cuddles them of her older brother in heaven and I always refer to them as Luke's. And just because I tear up when thinking of and missing Luke, hearing his name and saying it out loud is some of the best therapy there is. It helps me validate his life and remind me that no matter what has happened, he is still my son and I love him just as much as his sisters on earth.