Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Sweet 16 Months

Emma is such a sweetie at 16 months.  Well, except for the times when she is hungry, tired, just woke up, or in the thick of sibling rivalry.  But back to her being a sweetie.  She had a busy month as usual, and her vocabulary continues to grow.  She said her first full sentence this past week too - after watching a dog go to the bathroom on our lawn she pointed while shouting "Doggie go poo poo!"  Which was funny, because the owner obviously heard her and was super embarrassed - so much so that the owner asked us if we had a bag so that she could dispose of it.  It was hard not to laugh when Emma kept yelling, "Doggie go poo poo!"  I think Emma had just made the connection that dogs poop too.  So, thank you neighborhood doggie, for teaching my kid that everyone poops and thank you Emma, for teaching my neighbor to carry a bag to dispose of her dog's poop while walking on other people's front lawns!

Emma got to see her cousin Ellen again this month as my sister-in-law and niece came back to town from Minnesota for an encore tour while my brother Mike was on a business trip.  Emma now calls her cousin by name, "Ewen".  Here they are below playing Hot Cross Buns on the piano.  And, because I couldn't decide which picture was the cutest, you get three variations.


Emma's other word highlights include "nap nap" which she now says when she is tired and ready for a nap, or "nigh-nigh" when she is ready for bed.  And again, I couldn't decide on my favorite pictorial representation of her sleepy time vocal, so here are three more pictures depicting the same thing.
As you can see in the above and below pictures, she loves to cuddle her stuffed animals and doll when she goes to sleep.  I remember Lucy was in that stage and I just had to laugh when I was rocking Lucy with Hopps, Polly, Huggums, etc. on my lap with little room for Lucy.  Now it is Ducky, Teddy, and Emma's Huggums plus her blankie with little room for Emma on my lap!  And believe me when I tell you that she knows when one of them is missing.
Sometimes Emma wakes up prematurely from her nap and then she is super cranky and clingy.  In the below picture I took her downstairs so she wouldn't wake up Lucy who happened to be taking a rare nap and Emma fell back asleep on me.  I managed to get my iPhone out of my pocket and take a picture and then proceeded to get my Pinterest fix while reveling in my snuggly baby.  Just look at those cheeks - now I know where she gets them from!
Even when Emma gets a long enough nap, she still prefers to snuggle and be held for at least a half hour after she wakes up.  This sometimes makes dinner prep a bit difficult, so we came up with the below solution, which usually helps her get over being clingy faster too.  She then yells "down!" and off she goes.
Emma seems to prefer the letter "D", and cat sounds like "Dat!" and bye sounds like "Die!"  Her byes are funny when we are leaving someplace and she is yelling "DIE!!!  DIE!!!" repeatedly.  She makes us laugh all the time though with the cute things she is saying or doing.  She loves putting her bare feet in our face while saying "Stinky!"  Here she is below making faces on the glass of the back door.
 Emma has been eating a ton lately it seems.  She isn't picky and has even been tolerating more dairy products too, which makes life easier for us.  While on vacation this past month she consumed an entire hamburger.  It took her about an hour to eat it, but she just kept plugging along until it was gone!  Here she is below, eating the hamburger like a big girl.
Emma loves hanging with the big kids and wants to do whatever we are doing.  She even helped move her Aunt Jane into her new apartment this past month.  Here she is below making sure Auntie's air conditioning was working properly.
Emma is finally big enough to hold her end of the deal on the alligator see-saw we have.  I bought the see-saw at a garage sale when Lucy was Emma's age for $3 - it is on my top 10 list of best garage sale deals ever.  But when I brought it home Emma was but a dream on the horizon and Lucy had no one to play on it with.  This made me so sad missing Luke and feeling sad for Lucy too - who should have had an older brother to play with.  It is always interesting what makes me miss Luke, and it still seems to catch me off guard.  When we found out we were pregnant with Emma, I couldn't wait until Lucy had a sibling to play with.  Almost two years later, and Lucy finally does.  That makes me smile, while fighting back the tears because look - there is still an empty seat in the middle where Luke should be.
No matter how many children I have on earth, no one will replace Luke and that is hard to deal with sometimes.  There will always be an empty place until we are all reunited again in heaven.  Emma is just starting to listen when we talk about Luke.  That Teddy and Ducky that she cuddles with were given to us at Luke's baby shower.  It is a good reminder every time Emma cuddles them of her older brother in heaven and I always refer to them as Luke's.  And just because I tear up when thinking of and missing Luke, hearing his name and saying it out loud is some of the best therapy there is.  It helps me validate his life and remind me that no matter what has happened, he is still my son and I love him just as much as his sisters on earth.

Sunday, August 5, 2012

July Bumps and Beauties

We celebrated our 8th wedding anniversary this past month.  To celebrate, we rode our bikes downtown for dinner and then attended a lecture on researching old houses at the library - dorky, I know.  And although it takes a special occasion these days to be on a pair of bikes without a trailer of kids behind us, we have probably logged over 3,000 miles on these two bikes in our 12 year relationship.  I think the above picture sums up our journey together so well - we are still leaning on each other even after all of the rough bumps, flat tires, steep hills, saddle sores, glorious descents, and breath-taking scenery.


If trouble comes in waves, we definitely rode the home repair wave this month.  At times it felt like we were residents on a rough and tumble farm with animals and equipment in constant need of our attention while the weeds grew up around us.  Maybe this is what happens during the eighth year of wedded bliss.  All of those items we purchased or were gifted to start our new life together are starting to feel their age.  As if to prove the point, when we came back home from the old house lecture on our anniversary, we curled up together on the love seat (so romantic, I know) with our laptop, excited to apply our new found history resources to our house.  Our romantic mood was ruined minutes later however, not by a crying child, but by the computer screen going dark and stating in a primitive typeface, "Dumping all data now."  The next day we decided to cut our losses and bought a new Mac Book Pro.  Despite the price tag and a bit of a learning curve to transfer all of my PC files to my new Mac, I am definitely loving the freedom and efficiency of having all of my technology linked together now with the Mac Book Pro, iPad and iPhone and am enjoying my leap from 2004 technology to sleek, light, and fast 2012 technology.

Our woes didn't end there.  Our washing machine broke with a full load of laundry in it the night before we were expecting house guests.  Here I am thinking, great, this is not in the budget since we just bought the equivalent to a washer and drier in the form of a laptop.  Fortunately, Will was not phased but began looking up part numbers on our new computer.  Imagine my amazement when the next morning after an 8am trip to an appliance parts store he had the washer up and running before our guests arrived!
Will's phone has slowly been dying and in true Will fashion, he found a way to keep it working.  The screen no longer works by tapping it with fingers, but apparently using a fork is pure magic.  I don't know if it's guilt over my having an iPhone or as a friend put it - he looks hungry - I knew I had to find a way to get him a new phone.  After a trip to the Verizon store, we left with no phone but plenty of complaints about The Man, contracts and fees.  After eight years of marriage, I knew I would have to get creative to find a phone solution for Will, a man who is known around these parts as never saying die.  I decided to put a shout out on Facebook and someone generously donated a like new phone she was no longer using to the cause.  Will has since put his fork down and no longer has to play his own version of Words with Friends where you have to text without using the letters G, H, I, Q, R, S, or T.
 
Will may have compromised by accepting a like new phone, but he is still valiantly trying to keep our lawn mower running that he salvaged from my parents garbage two years ago.  After ungodly noises erupted from the mower on our front lawn this past month, I was certain that the weeds were going to swallow Emma up and that our mower had mulched it's last blade of grass.  But wait!  After a quick trip to Home Depot and a new spark plug later, the mower is running again and although I still think it is on it's last leg, we have avoided a citation from the city for unsightly weeds at least this month.

And, as if all of our technology and appliance fails weren't enough, two of our chickens came down with some sort of strange illness.  After several YouTube videos and advice from our local feed shop and friends with poultry we have determined that they have Newcastle disease, which we believe they obtained from the robin that built it's nest above their chicken run.  It has been very sad to watch and one of the birds died from it already.  The second one, Bearded Lady has been fighting it for over three weeks now and it has been a lot of work keeping her comfortable while feeling helpless at the same time. We love our hens and it is sad to see them suffer.  We have tried to keep Bearded Lady as comfortable as possible, and have even given her warm baths, fed her with a syringe and dare I say, gloved up and used a tube of Vaseline to make sure she wasn't egg bound.

To say that I am in awe of my husband would be an understatement.  I wouldn't even know where to begin in most of these situations and he just calmly takes things apart, assesses the situation and comes up with a plan.  I am overwhelmed where as he is challenged and intrigued.  Fortunately for us, all of our broken things were either mended, replaced or stable by the time my brother, sister-in-law and niece came to stay with us for a couple of days from Minnesota.  We had a blast watching the three cousins play together.  Below is Lucy, Emma and Ellen playing at Ellen's first birthday party.
Here are the three girls riding a favorite vintage toy at Grandma and Grandpa Hines'.
 Lucy loves her Uncle Mike and Aunt Jenna and while they were in town, Aunt Jenna could get Lucy do pretty much anything.  Lucy adores her and had lots of fun bonding time.  Here Lucy is below, getting her nails painted by her Auntie.
 We also had a brief but great visit from my oldest friend Lindsay who was in town for the day from Chicago.  It was so nice seeing our daughters play together.  If you would have told me twenty years ago that we would someday watch our daughters grow up together I would have said, "No way, I'm not having kids!"
Finally, we got to spend some great quality time with my cousin and her daughter this past month too.  Again, if you would have told me fifteen years ago that my cousin and I would live close enough to watch our kids grow up together, I would have said, "What?  You're moving to Europe too?"
Lucy seems to be going through a growth spurt.  She has grown an inch since April and is starting to complain that her froggy potty is too small now.  It is kind of small when you are trying to go fishing while sitting on it.
 Lucy has done lots of grown up things this month.  Here she is below running her very first car wash...
 Painting outside...
 and watching her very first movie in a theater...
...which happened to be Dora 4D at the Detroit Zoo.  I think she would have done fine if it was Dora 2D, without water squirting in our faces and the images so close it felt like we could reach out and touch them.  She spent the duration of the movie on my lap with my knee blocking the water source. When asked if she liked the Dora movie, she chooses to remain silent.
 She isn't silent for too much else though.  Lately she has developed quite the sense of humor and enjoys making us laugh by creating funny faces - surprised face, mad face, happy face, sad face, etc.  She is the most creative when we are trying to turn out the light for bedtime.  She also is developing her  comedic routine for all things potty related.  The other day Grandma T. asked Lucy where she lived and Lucy responded, "At the corner of Poopy Street and PeePee Lane!"  Will related this story to me later on, and told me that he had never been prouder of her.  What three year old knows the difference between a street and a lane, and the fact that she lives on a corner?  Lucy loves telling us while driving, "Uh oh, I pooped!" in a hilarious voice and just keeps cracking herself up as we try and explain the concept of crying wolf.  Her ability to work the words pee and poop into most any conversation truly is inspirational.  Here she is below, making us laugh in the garden with her outfit and her expression.
Two of our hens have begun laying this month!  It has been a definite learning curve since we first acquired baby chicks back in February, but finally five months later we are starting to reap the rewards.  We have an unnamed Isa Brown that is laying brown eggs quite faithfully every single day.  Mother Superior, the Americana and head hen is laying about 5-6 eggs a week.  Her eggs are a pretty greenish-blue.  She has been giving us a run for our money though and refuses to lay her eggs in the coop.  Instead, she prefers to literally fly the coop and lay her eggs in cozy and private nests under our neighbors black raspberry bushes or nestled under one of our hostas by the garage.  When she is done laying the egg she flies back into the coop and settles down like nothing happened.  Every day Will continues to apply netting to keep her in the coop, but every day she still manages to escape.  A couple of times Will tricked her into the coop and locked her in until she laid her egg, but this isn't ideal.  Lucy thinks it is great fun though, and gets a kick out of going on egg hunts to find where the day's egg has been laid.
 Besides eggs, our garden is now producing a plethora of green, yellow and purple string beans, lettuce, green and yellow onions, basil, five mint varieties, rosemary, oregano, carrots, beets, rutabaga and potatoes.  The tomatoes should be ready any day now and our strawberries are getting ready for their second harvest.  My favorite crop however are the two beauties in the below picture.  Wow, do we love gardening!
 
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